Quote from Emergent
Do you ever observe overly solicitous and pampering friends and relatives of utterly obnoxious, complaining, ungrateful, pains in you know whats, and wonder? Why? Why do they feed the bear? Why do they wait on this demanding, exasperating person hand and foot? !
Well, Emergent, before I married Belinda, I made her stick it in the wedding vows.
You know: "I Belinda, take you, Davey Do to be my lawfully wedded husband to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, while you're being an utterly obnoxious, complaining, ungrateful, pain in the you know what until I've had all I can stands and I can't stands no more."
Does this shed some light on the situation for you?