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No. 40
from bassandtea
Old Apr 26, 2008, 01:19 AM

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Originally Posted by JustaPatient View Post
I know it is a childrens hospital (lol. I would hope I knew that since I am a patient there) but I do not see why they mention infants. How can infants be sexually confused. I just learned in psychology class that kids don't understand they are a boy/girl and will stay that until they are 5 or 6.
When they talk about infants/babies I believe it is in relation to those born with one of the genetic disorders that cause ambiguous gender - as in the child is born with characteristics of both genders, an incomplete hermaphrodite. Often these children are assigned a gender at infancy/birth by their parents and the associated doctors. Or at least they have in the past.

Due to being so young when this decision has been made for them a number of these children grow up feeling that they are living in the body of the wrong gender. After having known somebody like this personally I believe that allowing them to have developed and identified with a gender before any surgery was attempted would have been of benefit.
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No. 41
Old Apr 26, 2008, 01:28 AM

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I took Leslie's advice to heart and did a little reading...and found this. A mother's account of raising a transgendered child. Heartbreaking and poignant, it lends a whole new perspective to this issue for those of you who believe that a having a transgendered child equates to a raising a little girl being a tomboy. Not all things are so absolute, so black and white. Please read the following:
http://www.transkidspurplerainbow.com/pdf/nurtuting.pdf
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No. 42
Old Apr 26, 2008, 01:49 AM

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Originally Posted by bassandtea View Post
When they talk about infants/babies I believe it is in relation to those born with one of the genetic disorders that cause ambiguous gender - as in the child is born with characteristics of both genders, an incomplete hermaphrodite. Often these children are assigned a gender at infancy/birth by their parents and the associated doctors. Or at least they have in the past.

Due to being so young when this decision has been made for them a number of these children grow up feeling that they are living in the body of the wrong gender. After having known somebody like this personally I believe that allowing them to have developed and identified with a gender before any surgery was attempted would have been of benefit.

Oh ok that makes sense. I was trying to immagine a "confused" infant. Not to say these children are confused but you know what I mean.
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No. 43
Old Apr 26, 2008, 05:14 PM

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Devil Duckie, thank you for posting that link. Reggi is the child I saw on the video who truly did seem to be a girl in a boy's body. It is heartbreaking - what a hard road for Reggi and the whole family.
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No. 44
from leslie :-D
Old Apr 26, 2008, 05:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Devil_Duckie View Post
I took Leslie's advice to heart and did a little reading...and found this. A mother's account of raising a transgendered child. Heartbreaking and poignant, it lends a whole new perspective to this issue for those of you who believe that a having a transgendered child equates to a raising a little girl being a tomboy. Not all things are so absolute, so black and white. Please read the following:
http://www.transkidspurplerainbow.com/pdf/nurtuting.pdf
all the stories i've read, have been heartwarming and bittersweet.
rather than being abusive, these parents of transgenders, have sacrificed a great deal in painfully accepting their son is a dtr, dtr is a son.
delaying puberty gives them time and prevents an onslaught of despair when the androgens/estrogens savagely attack these kids bodies and psychs.

it's all about giving time, and more important, these kids, a chance.

leslie
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