Re: Can confusion from brain met show itself suddenly?
well not my area of expertise, but I have some limited experience with this. I did an oncology internship for 12 weeks (wanted to be an oncology RN), then did bone marrow transplant last semester internship 12 week, and have a few admits over the years with acute LOC changes.
so based on that, I don't have you're day to day perspective, same as the family... where subtle changes may be occurring and are a bit unnoticed. I've dealt with... however and what ever has presented itself over an estimated short period of time.... LOC changes... confusion.
Lung cancer especially seems to go right to the brain, mets and cause quick changes.
So to specifically reply to your post. Brain mets occur BEFORE being diagnosed. It is diagnosed AFTER the LOC or mental changes and the docs are now scanning. Due to insurance $$, the docs do not preventively look and early seek out brain mets, but diagnose and "treat" only once the symptoms show.
Does that make sense? No patient or family would know ahead of time unless a symptom presented that told the docs to look. So you, the family... NO ONE missed anything.... chemo, low blood count, infection, change of environment... all that can cause confusion in our elderly. At this point it HAS ALREADY happened, you could have done NOTHING, not ANYTHING to PREVENT it.
It is not for you to place blame on yourself for an unfortunate, expected growth of the cancer to occur "unnoticed".... You picked it up immediately, created a change in the plan of care for safety. We second guess ourselves TOO much and expect way too much foresight with monday night 20/20 vision. don't blame yourself. Actually thought you did a great job, the cops too for following up!
Mets is a very unfortunate, expected outcome (what everyone is fighting against and hoping with NO control over!!!!!), this means you too! Love ya taz, you can't carry this load, its not yours to carry.
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