29 year old husband has brain tumor - page 5

my husband was just diagnosed with a brain tumor and will have a crani on the 21st.. after the incision heals he will begin chemo and radiation.. we have two children ages 5 and 3, who witnessed him... Read More

  1. by   mastiff38
    I wish I knew of some magic words that could make this all go away for you. I just can't imagine the shock you must be feeling. Please know that my most positive thoughts are coming your way. Sounds like your husband has a very loving family to support him through this - that will help him immensely. You and your family will be in my thoughts. Please take howie122832's advice and keep yourself healthy for the sake of your family. Please keep us updated.

    Kathy
  2. by   cwazycwissyRN
    My priorities are now to take care of my husband and my children the best that I can. Thank you all for reading my post and if you have been caught up with keeping up with the Jones, please listen to me--- it does not matter.. Give your spouse an extra kiss, hug or just rub his or her feet because every minute, every day should be charished...quote from jaystrupp

    words of wisdom, thanks jaystrupp

    My heart and thoughts go to you and your family
  3. by   oldnewnurse
    Have been watching for some news of how this went for jaystrupp's husband. The surgery was scheduled for yesterday (Friday).
  4. by   pinoyrn
    I wish you and your family all the best. I hope your husband recovers fully. I'm sending positive energy your way.

    Sincerely,

    Mano
  5. by   CHICKTOEAGLE
    jaystrupp..I want to send you and the children strenth and courage in this awful time. As i was reading through the posts, it became quite clear to me that this group is very special..a very large extended family who care deeply for one another. As a new member, i'm sending you warm positive thouhgts. Remember , in all this, to care for yourself.Please let us know about the surgery.((((JAYSTRUPP))))
  6. by   jaystrupp
    surgery was fine, dx was horrible
  7. by   jaystrupp
    he made it through the surgery with flying colors but the tumor is a gbm... the most deadly type of tumor and he has 9 months to a year and a half to live.. i am still in shock, but we will deal with it.. he wants to take the kids to disney and on a cruise so we will do all of that he wants until he cannot anymore... he is going to die.. my soul mate is going to die...............
  8. by   RN always
    jaystrupp, I am so very sorry to hear what you are going thru. Do you have family there for support? or a church or close friends. You will really need to lean on them. I wish I could say something to you to ease your pain but please just know that we all are thinking of you and sending you lots of prayers. Blessings,
  9. by   Nurse2bSandy
    Jaystrupp,
    You and your family are in my prayers. May God give you His peace... and may your husband have strength to do all that he desires to do with you and the kids. Do ask for help when you need it... we can only offer good thoughts and prayers, but I am sure that there are those around you who can bear some of your burden. Reach out... you have a lot on you.
  10. by   kimmicoobug
    Oh Man, how terrible for you and your family. I don't have a lot to say, but that I empathize with you. What a shock to be told something like this. Take care, be strong, and cherish every moment.
  11. by   DebsZoo
    {{{{{{{{{{{{jaystrupp}}}}}}}}}}}}

    There are no words that will make this go away. I only hope and pray that you, your husband and children will be able to do all that you plan, enjoy the time you have, and love him with every thread in your heart.
    My heart breaks for you. Please know you will be in my thoughts and prayers.
    Please know we are here to listen, comfort, if we can, and just share your sorrow.
    Deb~
  12. by   RNonsense
    Omg..I just saw the update now. I am so very sorry. Please know you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers...
  13. by   kids
    I am so sorry for you and your family. I can not imagine what you must all be going thru . Hugs and prayers coming your way. As so many have said...make use of whatever means of support you have available, you have a long row to hoe, don't try to do it on your own.

    -nancy

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