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Story about how two different nurses handle the death of a patient.by didi768 Jun 23, '11I didn’t know nurses drank and smoked. Okay, call me naïve but hey, I was young and stupid, I actually bought the hat. I was also under the impression that all nurses were Christians. WHAT KIND OF UPBRINGING DID I HAVE? WAKE UP NUN.
Her name was Heidi. Man did I hate Heidi. She represented everything in life I was NOT. She flirted with every doctor and drank like a fish. She did have spunk though, I’ll hand her that.
Some nurses have no class. She was one of them. Don’t ever trust a loved one with this girl, especially a dead one. One day I was in the room of her patient who had just died and she was dancing and laughing with her gloved hands swinging washcloths around. I was horrified. How disrespectful. This nurse went out for FLUID ROUNDS much too frequently and it damaged what brain she had left. I knew I never wanted to be that kind of nurse and I knew that nurses were NOT always what they seem, or what they appear to be.
I grew up a Christian girl and out of naivety, I thought all nurses were God’s little helpers; who took on the cares of the world and loved people. Never gossiped. And smoking? A nurse would never smoke, I was doubly sure of that! Wow. I must have been very sheltered.
Nurses do smoke. A lot. Nurses do drink and party. Nurses do gossip every chance they get. They do complain about their patients. They do get upset when someone wets or poops their bed. Of course, they are not going to tell you that, but it will be discussed. They will discuss it because they can. That’s right. They are human. So are doctors and dentists. Just because they are so-called “professionals” does not mean they act the part.
Do nurses do the best that they can? Of course they do. We all do. Humans are funny. We all mean well, but like with everything else in life, we make mistakes and screw up. There is only one perfect person and no matter how hard we try, we will never measure up.
Therefore, if you ever need the bedpan, look out. Hand it to the nurse, smile, and say, " Here sweetie, enjoy” Then just leave it at that. You “will” be discussed, you can bet on it.Last edit by Joe V on Jun 28, '11
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