Originally Posted by jewelcutt For those who don't want to be sedated or forget I don't quite understand the logic. I give versed all the time to prevent you having recall or nightmares about the operating room, usually people have so much stress from having to get a procedure they don't need anymore from us. We aren't barbaric, if you are in pain we will give you pain medicine. I understand no-one likes losing control but you just have to place yourself in the good hands of anesthetists, nurses, and doctors. We are really there to help you.
The best explanation I can give for avoiding sedation and amnesia is that there is no one method that works to reduce stress for all people. From reading this forum, it is apparent that many nurses feel their medical knowledge would make their own hospital stays more stressful. As a result, patients tend to be insulated from the details as much as possible. Although well-intentioned, and quite probably best for most patients, this approach has the unfortunate effect of greatly increasing my stress. The best approach for me is to treat me like a medical or nursing student and to provide me with detailed, comprehensive written information, thereby indulging my insatiable curiosity.
According to my medical records, reducing my anxiety was part of my treatment plan while I was in the Critical Care Unit. The irony of the situation was that because I was not given any written information and had no way of taking notes (no pen or paper either), the effort of trying to remember what little information I was told, along with trying to be the perfect little patient when I was not told how to be the perfect little patient, resulted in more anxiety for me.
The challenge for me in the future will be how to convey my preferences to the medical staff without causing an adversarial relationship. The best I can think of so far is to tell them up front that I am greatly interested in the procedure, and will be requesting my complete records so that I can learn as much as possible. I can only hope they understand, and not think I do not trust them, or am looking to file a lawsuit.
As far as avoiding sedation, my response will be: "I want this procedure done without sedation, by someone who is experienced and comfortable with performing it without sedation. Can I get this here, or do I need to be referred to a teaching hospital somewhere else?"
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