Hello,
I have some hints for you. I am at the stage where all I have left to do is my final practical assessment at TAFE (14th May) then I go on clinical placement at a hospital 19th May to July 2nd.
This is not an easy course but, in my view, it is certainly well worth the effort. You will need to be very disciplined in your approach to your study, you will need to become quite selfish in that you really do need to allocate a lot of time to your course, if you aren't an organised person then you need to become one, and discipline is imperative. My girlfriends complain that I've been neglecting them ... I tell them not to feel bad because I've neglected everyone over the last 18 months! :-)
I managed and I have all the advantages of not working, not having any children at home, having a husband who is retired and therefore able to take over a certain amount of household stuff (the washing, the dishes, other chores) and there were times where I struggled to meet assignment deadlines.
I was in school all day Tuesday and Wednesday so Monday I would cook enough dinners for Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday. Thursday was my full study day where I would put in anything up to 10 hours. I did part days on Monday, Saturday and Friday. Sunday was the day where school books were off limits, it was a full day devoted to my husband, a day where I veged out and didn't even bother to get dressed if I didn't feel like it.
If you have a room you can set up as a study, do it. If not, set up a corner in the lounge, family room or somewhere that you can have all your study materials in the one place.
A laptop is a good idea if you can afford one. I found I could then sit in the lounge at night with my husband. I could do work and be with him rather than secreted away in my study at the other end of our house.
Say 'no' and mean it when you have to. A diary is a must. I set up a wall chart in my study that had colums for 'what has to be done', date it is due, date it was submitted or completed and as I completed tasks, I highlighted them out. I am proud to say that I never had to ask for an extension and all assignments were handed up on time.
If you go through TAFE you will get Learning Guides for each unit and these have activities to complete. I made up a table for the front of the Learning Guide showing each activity (1.1, 1.2, 1.3 etc) and as I completed them, I highlighted them out. That way I always knew where I was and how many I had to do. It is an excellent idea to set up a roster type thing with what you plan to complete each week ... that way you know exactly where you are all the time.
Not sure if I have said this before but prior to the Diploma in Nursing I did a Bachelor of Arts by distance learning. It took me from November 02 to May 06 to complete but I have to say the EN was harder and more stressful.
Not sure where your sister in law is coming from with her opinion. In SA ENs are in high demand, are well respected, are treated very well and their job opportunities are wide ranging ... hospitals, aged care, community nursing, mental health, medical centres, day surgery centres to name but a few. Some of the students in our class have received job offers already based on their aged care placement back in November. Nursing homes are desperate for ENs here.
I have already registered with the agency I am going to work through. I will do some aged care personal carer work to get into the swing of working again then change over to EN status in July.
Go for it! It is well worth the time, money and effort.
If I can help, I'm
greeneyes41048@gmail.com
Regards
Liz