I think it's fabulous that you're all grown up, you're relatively well and have a family of your own!! My son has a transposition; he's 23 and was the first neonate at this centre to have the corrective surgery he had (Senning) and survive it. The original plan was to wait until he was six months or more old and then do it, but he had other ideas and they had no choice but to give it a go. He was also one of the last that they did here, because of the rocky courses and sudden deaths of a lot of the preceding kids. Later that same year they started doing the arterial switch and the Senning went into the history books. When I took him to the adult congenital heart disease clinic two years ago, I was told that patients with Sennings who are in good health and have no conduction abnormalities at 20 will be the same at 40, as that's the age of the oldest survivors... like you.
Nowadays, kids with your constellation of defects do extremely well, as a rule. Kids with simple ASDs are usually only in the PICU for one night, sometimes two. Simple VSDs aren't there much longer than that either. Coarcts sometimes need a bit longer because they need some time to get used to their new physiology and they may need an extra day or two of ventilation while the bloodflow to the systemic circulation balances out. They have significant hypertension for a few days and usually need sodium nitroprusside for a few days, then captopril for a while until it levels off.
Our sickest kids tend to be the Fontans and the total anomalous pulmonary venous drainages. We currently have a child with a Berlin heart following a failed Fontan, and we've transplanted a few others in the last year or so.
You are to be congratulated for your continued good health!