I agree with Morrettia2. It sounds like you are describing sinus arrythmia, it is the most common, but normal, heart rhythm irregularity that occurs during breathing. When a person breathes in, the heart rate normally speeds up for a few beats. It slows down again when a person breaths out. As far as the P wave changes, you mentioned that the patient had a holter monitor, I know what with many of the holter monitor systems they are able to perform p wave trending, P-amplitude trends are used in documenting supraventricular ectopic rhythms and episodes of atrioventricular dissociation and atrial fibrillation.

It is sorta difficult to really tell you for sure without seeing the ecg tracing and having more information, also, have they performed an EP study? Might be a good idea if they think that her symptoms are possibly life threatning.