First try:
http://www.icufaqs.org/Pacemakers.doc
A lot of it becomes clear when you actually get your hands on one and can play with it while it is connected to an actual person.
A mneumonic I developed when trying to determine what wire goes where when in an emergency and need to connect someone's epicardial wires to a pulse generator:
BLS as in Basic Life Support.
The 'L'onger wire is the 'S'kin wire and goes into the 'B'lack port.