#1 Nursing Resource: 806,000 unique visitors per month

Log in   Sign up   Why join?   | Layout: Switch to narrow layout Color: gold style blue style rose style
Nursing Community for Nurses
Home Forums Articles Specialty Students Region Career Resources

Advanced Search Site Help Site Map

Starting over at 45?



Currently Online
Members: 464
Guests: 2,922
3,386

Job Spotlight
ER & L&D RN
Houston, Texas
Administrator
Lagos, Lagos, Nigeria
Forum Spotlight
Distance Learning for Nursing

Nursing Degrees

Nursing Articles

The Case Of The Missing Dentures
Funny Nursing Stories
Funny Nursing Stories
Funny Nursing Stories
Be Kind to Co-workers, Or Else
Fixodent or Forget it!
Me and Mr. Smith and Waffles
How quickly we forget.
It is my X-ray
Thanksgiving Humor
Submit An Article

Nursing Jobs

Job Seeker: Employer:

Scrubs & Gear

Newsletter

Interested in the hottest topics of the week? Subscribe to the free allnurses.com Nurse-zine Newsletter.

Enter email address:


Read current:
Nursing Newsletter

How-To allnurses

allnurses videos

Welcome to allnurses: A Nursing Community for Nurses

The largest most active online nursing community. Join 312,562 nurses from around the world to learn, communicate, and network. For full allnurses.com access, register today - it's free! Problems during registration? Please don't hesitate to contact support.

Would you like to comment?
Join or Login if already a member.
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread
  #11  
Old Mar 06, 2008, 03:46 PM
Registered User
Join Date: Mar 2008
Re: Starting over at 45?

I feel your pain. I'm just about to finish up my pre-requisites for my local LPN program. It is absolutely killing me that I will now have to wait 5 months to see if I've been accepted to the next level of the program....... I don't have that many good years left!!

What I do know is this - as a forty something student I.....
  • Enjoyed school more
  • Got great grades ( 43 years of collected useless knowledge )
  • I am confident
  • I am driven
  • I was able to mentor the younger students around me
Most importantly, I understand my own motivations for doing this and appreciate the opportunity so much more than I would have years ago.

Some things are sweeter when you have waited for them longer.

Best of luck to US!

Top

The following members say Thank You:
  #12  
Old Mar 06, 2008, 03:55 PM
Franemtnurse's Avatar
poopsiebublnose
Join Date: Jun 2002
Re: Starting over at 45?

Originally Posted by BettyB123 View Post
Hello everyone....
Just looking to get opinions here - - I want to change careers and enter into a Nursing program. By the time I finish I will be in my mid-40's and just starting out in the nursing field. I know that my age shouldn't matter but I'm hung up on it. Does it sound/look ridiculous to start a nursing career at 45?
Why not? I graduated when I was 55.

Top
  #13  
Old Mar 06, 2008, 05:49 PM
happy2008 (Female)
Registered User
Join Date: Mar 2008
Re: Starting over at 45?

I was 44 when i graduated. You can do it because you are mature and know what you want and are willing to work for it. Age is only a number.

Top
  #14  
Old Mar 06, 2008, 05:55 PM
HM2Viking's Avatar
HM2Viking (Male)
TARDIS
Join Date: Apr 2006
Re: Starting over at 45?

Originally Posted by BettyB123 View Post
Hello everyone....
Just looking to get opinions here - - I want to change careers and enter into a Nursing program. By the time I finish I will be in my mid-40's and just starting out in the nursing field. I know that my age shouldn't matter but I'm hung up on it. Does it sound/look ridiculous to start a nursing career at 45?
I am starting my career at 47....I don't regret the career change in the least...

Top
  #15  
Old Mar 19, 2008, 09:41 PM
Registered User
Join Date: Oct 2007
Re: Starting over at 45?

I am a 43 year old student, and I will graduate at age 45. This has been one of the most enjoyable rides I've taken! I talked to a recruiter for one of the major hospitals, and she said they'd snap me up quick; I have had my family, I'm more stable and focused than many of the younger students, I have life and people experience, and many good years of service remaining. I have found in clinicals that many patients trust my judgment above some of the younger students, because of my maturity. (Big Mistake-haha) GO FOR IT!

Top

The following member says Thank You:
  #16  
Old Mar 26, 2008, 12:48 PM
New Member
Join Date: Nov 2006
Re: Starting over at 45?

Betty, If you want to do it you can do it.
It is a long hard exciting journey from deciding to become a nurse to getting accepted to nursing school. How long and how hard depends on where you are starting from and which nursing program/degree you are interested in. Here's my one rat experience and if I can answer any questions please ask...
Dec 2006
At age 51 I left my career in Health Ed and tooka year of pre-reqs that were required by all the nursing schools in the Boston, MA area to which I planned to apply (requirements varied and I wanted to cover all bases.because I knew the application process was competative).
As I finished pre-reqs, I gathered all info for the application process (recommendations-2-3 needed per school, transcripts). The essays will take alot of time and they are really important-start early. The application process is very time consuming and has deadlines.
Nov/Dec 2007
Pre-reqs done, applications out. I sighned up for a phlebotomy certificate course at a local Com college while waiting to hear from schools. I wanted to have skills to draw blood (it is not taught in all nursing programs) and I needed to still bring in $. Recommend it highly- my program included a 180 hour hospital internship that was invaluable.
March 2008
Early in March Regis and UMass called me in for an interview and here's the outcome...
I just turned 53 a week ago and have been accepted to one AD program and 4 accelerated BSN programs ( MGH-14 months, Simmons 18 months, Regis-18 months and UMass Boston's new fast-track 15 month BSN launching in June 08). I chose UMass in the end- its the same BSN degree, half the cost and I think it will be exciting to be in the first and smallest (only 25 of us) graduating class of their new program.
As far as age discrimination...for me it was an asset- I knew how to persevere for the long haul, and I was interviewed by faculty who had gone back to school late in life. In the hospital though I'm a lowly 53 year old phlebotomy student in a lab coat on rounds - I command way more respect than I deserve at first glance - Hosp Staff who haven't met me yet jump to attention thinking I'm a doc, nursing supervisor or the dreaded infection control person. Its pretty funny.

Best of luck and much love to all who do their best to reach their goals. Contact me if I can be of help...

Judy


Last edited by Latebloomer51 : Mar 26, 2008 at 12:51 PM.
Top
  #17  
Old Mar 26, 2008, 01:39 PM
BlueRidgeHomeRN (Female)
Senior Member
Join Date: Jan 2008
Re: Starting over at 45?

GO FOR IT!!

Nursing is also a second career for me, and no one has yet mentioned the life experience, wisdom, time management skills, and perspective older students have. (Makes up for being a little rusty on algebra!)

Not to mention, I wasn't worried about a social life--knew I'd be spending Saturday night with the same guys-DH and 2 DS's! No college aged angst about dates, acne, and body image!!

Top
  #18  
Old Mar 26, 2008, 01:42 PM
BlueRidgeHomeRN (Female)
Senior Member
Join Date: Jan 2008
Re: Starting over at 45?

Originally Posted by Latebloomer51 View Post
I command way more respect than I deserve at first glance - Hosp Staff who haven't met me yet jump to attention thinking I'm a doc, nursing supervisor or the dreaded infection control person. Its pretty funny.

Judy

Top
  #19  
Old Jun 11, 2008, 06:32 PM
Registered User
Join Date: May 2008
Re: Starting over at 45?

Betty, I know I don't have a lot of experience compared to a lot of nurses out there. I have high praise for those that dedicated their lives to take care of those who need them. I have always wanted to be a nurse. I read Madam Curie, Florence Nightingale and the like. When I was a kid I would write down any medical word I heard on the shows we watched. Then go to school and drive the librarian nuts. I am in a similar situation. I started and Rn program 20 years ago. Life led me back to FL after my husband was injured and wasn't able to finish it. After 3 children I now carry a CNA (for 4 years now) and working in a Physician office, and a phlebotomy certification. My intentions are to continue up the Nursing "ladder." As long as your heart is in it and you have the stamina to keep up with the demands you are never too old. The world needs caring, good-hearted nurses no matter what age they are. I have seen nurses that are sweethearts and others that have personalities of stumps. Follow your heart and God will put you where he wants you to be. BTW I am 44 this year. My kids and husband encourage and stand behind me all the way.

Top
  #20  
Old Jun 11, 2008, 07:08 PM
vintagestudent (Female)
Registered User
Join Date: Jun 2008
Re: Starting over at 45?

I, too, am returning to nursing school in less than 1 month at 46 years old, young, depending on how my day goes. lol

Seriously, I'm not as strong (and slim) as I was in my 20s and 30s, so working part-time or in a doctor's office makes good sense for me. Besides, my childrearing years aren't over yet and with 2 energetic teens at home and a soon-to-be preteen, I'm unsure I can effectively manage working in a busy hospital setting & parenting.

Also, and on a practical note, should I join a gym to strengthen my back for clinical rounds? What about comfortable shoes? Can any of you recommend some brands/styles?

for any advice and tips.

Top
Sponsored Links
 
Would you like to comment?
Join or Login if already a member.


Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
Pros & Cons of starting starting school as an LVN to be RN giddee78 General Nursing Discussion 4 Jan 22, 2008 03:57 PM


Currently Active Users Viewing: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search



New To Site?
Need Help?

All times are GMT -5. The time now is 08:39 PM.

Starting over at 45?

Copyright © 1996-2008, allnurses.com. All rights reserved.  allnurses.com, Inc. Advertising Information