I know that it can sting to be referenced in that manner - but, does it rise to the level of "harassment" and "create a hostile work environment"?
I think it would be a tough sell. How do you stop it? I suspect there may be some other problems in your workplace. Sure, you could call 'em on it, even discipline/fire if you wanted - but, will the removal of the "f" word users solve the "problem". And if an exodus occurs - are you going to be able to get other "nurses" in? Who is going to care for the patients?
I find that morale is easier to destroy in organizations that are short staffed, with management issues and if usually doesn't take the "f" word to do it.
I think going - toe to toe - in individual "meetings" to fetter out the "f" word violators is likely to stir the pot! And then you may not be the only target - they may faction even further and put one another in the cross hairs too!
A few things that I think go a loooong way to spark morale improvement!
1. Employees need what they need to get the job done! (Enough staff, materials, empowerment and such!)
2. Employees are not just nurses, administrative professionals, ancillary support staff - they are people! A management culture that does not VALUE and RESPECT their greatest resource should expect little in return!
3. Pretty first grade stuff here - but, • Tell the truth • Say please, may I, thank you, your welcome! • Be nice • Admit when you have done something wrong/hurtful - say "I'm sorry." (But, you need to MEAN it)
4. Invest in your staff and the dividends are enormous!
When healthcare providers are happy ~ it always impacts patient care in a positive manner!
• Pay well for a job well done.
• Encourage professional development/education/certification and reward it.
• When an employee is "struggling" at work - take a look at the big picture. An EAP can save many a great employee - !
5. A "biggie" here! WALK your TALK.
When what someone is "telling" is not congruent with their actions - that tells me everything! Words are from the mouth out - actions take the real effort!
I'm not sure of your management experience, but being a good nurse may not mean that you are a good "manager".
I've seen a phenomenal nurse (or two) be "promoted" to management and all out chaos take over - add that they were not equipped from an educational/experience/temperment standpoint to be in the position they found themselves - was bad for everyone. (And then not admitting that they may be in over their heads made it sooo much worse!)
Good luck with a difficult situation.