Wow! I'd never heard that term before mattsmom! "pink collar ghetto"??? That's not nice to teach the kids.
Sometimes I'm privy to conversations by others who talk badly about the treatment their loved ones got or didn't get while patients in a hospital. They always mention how "the nurse" didn't do right by their loved one....too slow getting the pain meds, not bathing their loved one in time...making them wait to be fed....not informing them of test results or discharging them in time when the doctor clearly said they could go NOW.

These are things that give us a "bad rap" if you will, and it isn't even our fault.
I once had a patient whose doctor discharged him at 0800 in the morning. That patient hunted me down in another patients room to tell me he was meeting friends for lunch and a golf game, so could I give him his walking papers so he could be on his way. He was totally dressed with bags in hand, too.

Never mind that the patient I was with was having difficulty breathing and in great pain. The man didn't get to leave when he wanted to leave because he was not my only concern of the morning. Golf game versus pain and respiratory distress? To the patients.....both were important. To the nurse.....we have to pick and choose based on priority and not on leisurely activities that a discharged patient must get to.
It's when patients are discharged that they give us a bad rap when we don't respond johnny-on-the-spot for them. So not fair to not understand the complexity of sick people vs. well people.

I'm always hearing stories from people about how their nurse wasn't this or that for them during their hospitalization. These stories spread from person to person like a virus, and that gives a bad rap to us as nurses.