Re: When you DONT get the job...
She gave you a specific time frame in which she stated that she would get back to you. She did not. So call her. Any number of things could have happened to make her not get back to you when she said she would.
1. She wants you but lost your contact infomation. OR your forgot to put it on your resume, or it was incomplete, or incorect. (this has happened)
2. She is out with an illness or injury. (not an original concept)
3. She forgot (happens)
4. Something happened and they are not going to hire for this position at this time afer all. (agin happens even after interviewing people)
5. She is no longer woking there herself (happens a lot)
Call her state you are concerned as you interview 2 1/2 weeks ago and now want to know your status.
Some place do not notify you. But when they clearly say they will then you have a right to expect it. When they don't notify you within the time they state or within a reasonable time (2 1/2 wk is reasonable) you should call if you have any remaining interest in the position.