hey all,
interesting thread. hmm.. I have to agree with the the logic of your professors, but still, I wouldnt hide it. Like so many people have said, the truth comes out, and you really dont want to be worried about having a secret identity while u'r first out in the workforce. Who needs that extra stress? You will get work, and your degree will help- ur just lucky enough to be a minority. try to think of yourself as special, and remember what an asset you will be once you are employed and the rejection might not hurt so much. Ive had problems like this for years now, for various reasons. Ive learnt a lot about myself, and about other people through the positions they have put me in and the lables i've been stuck with. And now, with the only way to become a registered nurse in Australia being through university, I am dealing with it again everyday because my education apparently doesnt suffice and therefore I'll always be hopeless!

There is no convincing some people!!! Most people want to stick with what is familier to them, and no one likes feeling that their job is threatened, or that they arn't good enough in comparison. People are insecure and defensive. We all are. But some poeple do try and succeed brilliantly at being better than that- and they are the poeple we dont let go of. Annnnyway, im rambling, soory.
My advice to you.. listen to the cliches! Stay true to yourself- you need to be able to be yourself and still feel appreciated at work. Be as honest as you can and what you can offer will come shining through. If they doubt you, prove yourself to them. Be creative in applying for work- harrass all the local hospitals until they dream about you! make yourself known and wait. in the meantime, if you can afford it (and you are blessed if you can) find some related volunteer work in the field. U'll get to start networking, get more hands on experience and then ur resume will reinforce that you are actually a caring people person and not just some heartless academic.
omg. Sorry about the rant. guess it is still a soft spot for me too.
take care.
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