I hate admitting patients who are brought in basically for nursing-home placement.....you can't get a history, their family members are usually long gone by the time they come up from ER, and they almost always need total care because they're confused and crawling OOB, combative, incontinent, unable to feed themselves, or so obese they can't do anything for themselves and need to be 'turned and basted' every 2 hours. These pts are hard on everybody......I just wish people would realize that hospitals are NOT a babysitting service, and not wait until matters are completely out of control before looking around for a place for Mom or Dad.