Re: vented patients
We do the sedation vacation too - but be aware, he may not have a clue what the heck is going on when he does arouse. Don't expect too much from him. It is a chance for him to know you are all there and that things are okay. He may be interactive, more likely for him it will be like waking up in a
very strange hotel instead of his own bed, and he will be trying to piece it all together. First thing is trying to take that hose out of his mouth that doesn't belong there, hence the restraints. Many patients do re-orient to their environment much more quickly when family is there to help them realize what is going on and it is all okay.
It is much harder mentally/emotionally to have a family member/loved one so sick. I take care of these patients every day with no problem, but when it was my dad I nearly fainted in the room first time in to see him. My thoughts and prayers will be with you!