wow....i never had so many replies to a thread i started!
i got a lot of good information from all of you. i find it very interesting the differences in opinion everyone brings here. i especially find it interesting how other countries are not so worried about being sued as we are here in the US. everything i learned (and am learning now) in school, has always been to cover yourself and protect yourself from being sued and/or losing your license.
at work, the NM who wrote me up is going around and trying to find others who agree with her way. she won't talk to me. i did fight the write up, and it has been thrown away for the time being, as we have no policy. i told the DON to contact an attorney as she comes up with a policy for this, and she agreed to do just that.
work is becoming terrible. morale is down, and i am burning out quickly. i have fmla for my migraines and back pain, and i have been missing a lot of work lately. as soon as i walk in the door to that place, i can feel the tension. i always feel on edge, and as if i have to defend every decision i make. i will be glad to be done with school so that i have other employment options. i love being an lpn, but i hate how so many people assume you're an idiot because you're not a "real nurse". that's the attitude at my facility. i just wish i could control my stress better. i hate feeling like this all the time.
i just wanted to pop in here and say thanks to those who took the time to respond to me, i really, truly appreciate your time to tell me how things are done at your place of employment.
back to the books for me~exams coming!!!