Kara
I know where you are coming from, I too was diagnosed about PCO about 18mth ago.
I have found talking about it with mates great, in fact a couple of friends went and got checked-outand diagnosed after i talked about the signs and symptoms.
My GP was not very helpful, but the web was, I don't have the address anymore but i found a useful help site with a support group in USA.(PCOD i think) In fact i gave my GP the information for further use. It certainly seems more common than I was first told!
the hairyness was what got me

but after a waxing & Rx that has not returned. I am on a contraceptive: Estelle35.
Certainly seems to be working, hardest thing is losing all that weight.
Good luck