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Old Mar 04, 2007, 11:12 AM
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"The last place I worked, we did things differently!" (and correctly)

What about nurses who come from other facilities, who constantly critisize the way things are done where you work? They are always talking about where they previously worked, as if it were the gold standard.

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Old Mar 04, 2007, 11:19 AM
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Re: "The last place I worked, we did things differently!" (and correctly)

I've had people like that. I always ask, "so, why did you leave?"

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Old Mar 04, 2007, 11:25 AM
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Originally Posted by cardiacRN2006 View Post
I've had people like that. I always ask, "so, why did you leave?"
Yes, that's what I wonder. Some of them sound like a broken record. I think it's better to be a gracious newcomer and find out the policies at your new facility, rather than being a know it all.

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Old Mar 04, 2007, 11:56 AM
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Re: "The last place I worked, we did things differently!" (and correctly)

Originally Posted by cardiacRN2006 View Post
I've had people like that. I always ask, "so, why did you leave?"
Maybe they moved. Maybe the other place doesn't pay as well. Maybe they wanted a shorter commute. That doesn't mean that the other place may not have had better ways of doing some things. Perhaps keeping an open mind would be the best advice for both parties involved.

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Old Mar 04, 2007, 12:12 PM
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Someone who lacks self-confidence or cannot site evidence for changing a practice will use "the other hospital" to enhance credibility. Rather than become defensive you might ask them to write down their suggestions to be turned in to the supervisor for consideration. Maybe they just want to be seen and heard, not really be critical. We all want to feel like we contribute and so far I have not been in a hospital that could not stand a little tweaking. I agree the comment is irritating but perhaps it can be used for good.

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Old Mar 04, 2007, 12:36 PM
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Re: "The last place I worked, we did things differently!" (and correctly)

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Someone who lacks self-confidence or cannot site evidence for changing a practice will use "the other hospital" to enhance credibility. Rather than become defensive you might ask them to write down their suggestions to be turned in to the supervisor for consideration. Maybe they just want to be seen and heard, not really be critical. We all want to feel like we contribute and so far I have not been in a hospital that could not stand a little tweaking. I agree the comment is irritating but perhaps it can be used for good.
This is amusing because as you said there is not a hospital that can't usse tweaking. There are things my old hospitals could learn from my newer ones as well. Some times managers ask for and acutally want suggestions from new nurses that that brought with them from an old employer. Suggestions from such nurses can be very insightful because they are not blinded by familarity of how we do things here.

Then there are those who only gives lip service to "we want your suggestions and information on how your old hosp. did this"

Yes a new employee does need to learn the policy of the new facility and be aware that there is often more than one right way and one effective/effiecient way and this hospital's way may be just as good even better just different.

On the other hand I sometime observe is a closed mind on the part of the staff and management at the new facility to acknowledge that something may be wrong with or benifit from fixing that the new person has the answer to because of thier different perspecive and experience.

Sometimes the new employee is simply saying be patient with me I have a lot to learn about your ways as I did things very differently where I was last at.

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Old Mar 04, 2007, 01:00 PM
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Originally Posted by Agnus View Post
Sometimes the new employee is simply saying be patient with me I have a lot to learn about your ways as I did things very differently where I was last at.
I think also, sometimes it's a way of saying, "This is what I'm used to, please tell me how it's different here so I don't do it wrong...." It's a way of saying, this is who I am, this is what I know.... not necessarily a criticism.

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Old Mar 04, 2007, 01:17 PM
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Originally Posted by GardenDove View Post
What about nurses who come from other facilities, who constantly critisize the way things are done where you work? They are always talking about where they previously worked, as if it were the gold standard.

We had one nurse that CONSTANTLY said that, like HER way was the ONLY correct way. One day, after a long stressfilled day of working with a doc that we'd nicknamed Dr. Buttmunch, she finally fried my last nerve with with her non-stop that's-not-the-way-we-did-it-at-XYZ-Hospital-so-blah-blah-blah, and i asked "if that place was so [darn] fabulous, they why did you leave?" She actually didn't have a reply, literally stuck her nose up in the air, and stomped out of the room like a toddler. She was another person we'd had the going-away party about, AFTER she'd moved to the next state over.

Now i think there's a difference between the person i just described, and those that are putting in a suggestion they had learned at a prior facility for a solution to a problem.

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Old Mar 04, 2007, 01:19 PM
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What about nurses who come from other facilities, who constantly critisize the way things are done where you work? They are always talking about where they previously worked, as if it were the gold standard.
Maybe they are feeling overwhelmed?

Or maybe they're just critical jerks? :hatparty:

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Old Mar 04, 2007, 01:59 PM
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Re: "The last place I worked, we did things differently!" (and correctly)

Sometimes we can learn from them. Sometimes I ask "does it really matter? Do it our way please, this is our policy."

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