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Old May 15, 2008, 04:16 PM
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Help! - HELP! Can I do this????

I just found out that the RN program through the community college is a two-year full time program. I am getting ready to get divorced and have two kids. Is there any possible way I can do this or am I just out of luck?

I know I will get child support but the counselor said it is like 48 hours a week and most people don't/can't work while going through the program.

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Old May 15, 2008, 04:22 PM
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Re: HELP! Can I do this????

Congratulations on getting in! Myself and many of my classmates with and without kids worked all during school and got excellent grades. "They" discourage working but it is very possible if you have a good support system and are motivated. I would guess the biggest thing for you to consider is child care arrangements. Wishing you the best and yes, you can do it!

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Old May 15, 2008, 04:27 PM
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Re: HELP! Can I do this????

this is doable, better w/o working esp with children, probably the roughest two years of your life..
do you have anyone, family/ex, who can help with children??

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Old May 15, 2008, 04:38 PM
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Yes, my ex would definitely help with the kids, but he works also of course. I just don't know if it is worth me getting my general eds over with and getting in and then realizing that I cannot swing it.

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Old May 15, 2008, 11:09 PM
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Re: HELP! Can I do this????

how old are your kids? they will be adjusting to a lot, divorce,mom at school(work?)

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Old May 16, 2008, 07:47 AM
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Re: HELP! Can I do this????

I have a 9 year old girl and 11 year old boy. Any suggestions?

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Old May 16, 2008, 09:09 AM
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I say go for it. You won't know till you try and no knowledge is ever wasted. Even if you have to delay graduation you can meet your goal at some point.

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Old May 16, 2008, 09:17 AM
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Re: HELP! Can I do this????

Look into scholarships and if your state offers job training placement assistance for displaced homeworkers. Also after one year in school with low/no income you will probably be eligible for more asst.
It is hard but It will benefit your kids in the long run. Also it is a great lesson for them in the importance of education.
Seeing you succeed will always be an inspiration to them.
Divorce changes things anyways for kids. Your standard of living usually goes down, so might as well do this now. It probably won't ever get any easier.Thats my two cent from having been down a similar road. Good Luck!


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Old May 16, 2008, 09:35 AM
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will the kids be w/ family while your away?those are tough ages.

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Old May 24, 2008, 01:18 AM
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I went through four years of nursing school (BSN) with my daughter being 2-6 and I was a teenage mother. I applied and recieved a full-ride scholarship with a monthly stipend of 1100 right into my bank account! through the federal government called HRSA Nursing Scholarship , the deadline for this year is in June I believe. Would apply for it! And as long as you want it, you will be able to acheieve anything!!! http://bhpr.hrsa.gov/nursing/scholarship/

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