I had two very unique experiences over the last 2 days.
First: Tonight I took care of a gentleman who died at 12:25 AM. He had NO heartbeat and no resperations for at least 5 minutes. Then, 10 minutes later his son came down the hall saying "dad is breathing!" I assured him it was probably reflex breathing that we see quite frequently with the COPD patients...At first that is exactly what I thought it was, but then the breathing became more frequent and regular. Checked his chest, still no heartbeat. BUT, I could palpate a carotid pulse. (He did die at 1am, but still.....)
Second: Walked into a man's room on Monday and found him holding his 100% non-rebreather in his hand. He was blue, agonal breathing, and unresponsive to a sternal rub/nail bed pressure. His left eye was half open and rolled to the back of his head. I called another nurse to come sit with him while I called his family. It would take them at least 45 minutes to get to the facility He had been incontinent of urine, so the aide helped me clean him up and put a new gown on him. A few minutes later, she came back in and said in his ear "your daughter just called. She said to hold on, the family is on their way." This man (no lie

) sat straight up in bed, opened his eyes, looked me straight in mine and said "well, I guess I had better get my act together then, hadn't I?

He spent the next half hour talking to me until they got there. I am thinking he threw a PE, but who knows? His family was thrilled to have that little bit of extra time with him. He passed the next day.
So, anyone else have anything like this happen? I swear, I have seen more amazing things in the two years I have been in Hospice than in all my previous years of nursing. I had one patient a month or so ago that wasn't moving his chest when he breathed. His heart continued for Oh.....THREE FREAKING HOURS, but he wasn't breathing. The only thing I can figure on that one is he was passing air I couldn't hear through an old Trach stoma.