Originally Posted by Brooke1984
I completely understand how you feel. The best thing to do is just learn from it and learn to be tougher. I am a 23 yr old new RN, and one thing I really need to work on is not letting people walk all over me....meaning DR, residents, PA's...but yea-to totally relate...my preceptor a few months ago had me crying hysterically in a pt's room bc she told me " i just wasn't getting the critical thinking part " about working in the ICU...can you imagine....like a knife right through my heart...Stay strong, it happens to the best of us !
Brooke1984, I cringe when I hear about such a remark. A few questions pop into my head when I hear such a story. (Understand that this head spent 12+ years in the public classroom teaching critical thinking) Firstly, where is this preceptor's head? Does she understand the adult learner? (Dignity of the adult learner is of upmost importance.) Does she use proven methodology to teach critical thinking and its application? How is she evaluating? Are there clear objectives and strategies for you to attain those objectives? Does she know what type of learner you are? Broad generalizations offered up as true evaluations are just excuses for poor teaching. All evaluations should include strengths, weaknesses, an improvement plan, and benchmarks. I'm sure that many new nurses have wondered why they just don't "get it". Yeah right.......blah blah blah