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  #11  
Old Oct 01, 2006, 10:45 AM
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I got a student loan without having a job.

The above posters gave you some good advice. Please don't leave school, since your dire situation will greatly improve once you have your degree. Definately talk to someone. There are people out there who can help you.

Take care and keep us posted!

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  #12  
Old Oct 01, 2006, 10:56 AM
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Re: Desperate !!

Don't know how you feel about the armed forces, but there was a woman in our class who was having her schooling paid for, plus a 1,000.00 stiped per month all paid by the air force on the condition that she sign up as an officer when she was through. We had an army recruiter tell us that there was a 15,000.00 sign on bonus if you signed up with them. Again, I'm sure there's a committment of more than a year, but hey, they give you specialty training while you are in, and that is free!

Just at thought

(edited to add this...) Forgot to mention, the army sign on bonus is paid "immediately," then you finish out your schooling. (I know what immediately means to me, I'm not sure what immediately means to the army. grin)


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  #13  
Old Oct 01, 2006, 11:09 AM
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Re: Desperate !!

You are not alone. I also am set to graduate in December and have quit my job because I wasn't able to work and pass my classes. I also maxed out my financial aid last semester and I maxed out the loan amounts I was able to take out from the school. The only difference is I got approved for a private student loan, the catch is I don't see a penny of it until the middle of November. My family is living on PB&J and ramen noodles at the moment in order to keep the roof over our head. I just keep trying to tell myself that come December 14 I will graduate and then I can make sure my family never suffers again. If you have a church please go there, heck even if you don't have a church reach out to them. I know our church helps people that are down on their luck all the time. Even if the one that you reach out to can't help they can refer you to someone who can. Please don't give up, you are so close to finishing. You can pm me anytime if you need someone to talk to or need support. There are so many of us in the same situation, you are not alone.

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Old Oct 01, 2006, 11:09 AM
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Re: Desperate !!

My gosh, if you lived in my area you could come and stay with me.

I think you need to talk to the head of the nursing department immediately to see if they know about any emergency student loans that can bridge you through until the end of the month.

Since you are in your last semester, I would go to the largest hospitals in your area, explain your situation, and say you would be willing to sign an employment contract if they would help you out.

You are almost there sweetie! You are sooooo close, please don't give up!

Can you donate plasma? Call around the locate Real Estate offices and see if they have an agent that needs someone to help with flyers or something and could pay you $30 here and there when you get a free afternoon to get you through. Call a local maid service and explain your situation, and see if you might be able to help out for a day or something if they can pay you cash...do the same with a local nanny service...these are jobs that don't have a schedule, they may be willing to help you out. See if there is any faculty at your school that may need a sitter.

If you get this, please send me a PM.

Can you get a credit card online? I hate those things, but with only a couple of months left it would definately be worth it...stick with a place like Citibank Visa or something that will approve almost anyone...use your financial aid as income on the application, they give alot of cards to students. Even if you do a couple of thousand on CC, you'll be able to pay this off quickly when you graduate.

Is there ANYTHING that you have that you can sell to a pawn shop? A TV? Anything? Talk to the landlord and see if they can work something out with rent..explain to them that you'll be able to get a full time job once you graduate in just 3 short months! Not even that!

I'll pray for you!


Originally Posted by mika1
If there is anyone with any advice PLEASE advise me. I am currently in my last semester of school with a solid B. My last available to withdraw from school is October 13. If I withdraw now there is no assuarance that I may be able to return to my program if I withdraw since I withdrew once before during my 2nd semester. With that being said this is my situation. Im just about too ashamed to tell anyone. I am over the limit for financial aid. It has been a struggle for me to keep my grades up so during the third semester I quit my job, I absolutely had to make a choice and I probably made the wrong choice by choosing school. Well long story short my bills are paid up until the end of this month, at which point I will be homeless. My situation is so bad that one of my class mates has been giving me gas money just so I can make it to class and clinicals. Ive lost 20 lbs since the beginning of the semester because I basically eat crackers and potatoes and take vitamins. I have gone to apply for any type of aid but because I dont have kids i basically cant get anything. I spent every dime to my name to pat the last semesters tuition and books. I attempted to apply for a loan but because I dont have a job the bank wont give me one. My family is not such that I can go stay with someone. Can anyone just give me some sound advice. I thought about withdrawing and just going back to work and reapply in a year or so when my situation is better or doing something else all together that would allow me to work and go to school. My absolute passion is nursing. I think that just trying to make it until December in this situation will be to my demise ! Any suggestions are appreciated. Thank you all for taking the time to read this long vent.

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Old Oct 01, 2006, 11:51 AM
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Re: Desperate !!

Absolutely do not drop out! You are in your last semester! Trying to start up again next year would be 10 times harder. You can make these last few months! There is always some way to get money somehow. First go talk to your advisor/Dean. Many nursing schools have emergency funds.

Have you tried to get a private student signature loan? That's what I did when my money ran out, and I didn't have a job. Don't go through a bank - their interest rates are worse, and yes - they expect you to have a job. I can't believe that your financial aid office isn't working with you towards a solution. (Although mine wasn't that helpful either.) Like others said, there are work/study programs, Army/Air Force offers, and many hospitals pay for schooling. At one hospital in my area, they paid your tuition if you worked just 16 hrs a week.

Maybe you could go live with a classmate just for a few months?

Out of any major, nursing definitely gets the most help paying for school. You just have to be creative. Don't be shy - tell people about your plight and I bet others know of programs in your area that can help you, that you didn't even know existed. Being embarrassed a little bit now will pay off in 3 months when you have a degree and can support yourself! Leaving school now, with only a few months left would be a HUGE mistake and you would definitely regret it! Good luck - you can make it three more months!

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Old Oct 01, 2006, 01:39 PM
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Re: Desperate !!

All of the suggestions I could have made were made above- I do hope you will try some of them and let us know how you are doing! I noticed that you posted back in January about a financial crisis much like you are again experiencing right now, but you never posted on this site again to say if you tried any suggestions or how you were doing. I hope that you please come back to your thread this time to let us know how you are and if anything suggested was helpful! I also hope that you make contacting a food bank (Salvation Army? church?) your highest priority, and speaking to your school advisor your second highest (they often know of 'secret' loans/funding sources). Do not be ashamed, both places have heard of similar situations before...I can assure you!! And remember that people in here do care and want to hear again from you!

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Old Oct 01, 2006, 02:07 PM
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Re: Desperate !!

our school has a nursing student's food bank, and also emergency gas money. Please go talk to your advisor, that is what they are there for.If that gets you no where, go to the Director of the program You are too close to quit now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I know everyone here is sending a prayer for you to find a way. Trust in the Universe, send up a call for assistance. Use resources in your area, find a way. You can always pay it back when you graduate.
wishing you the best- hang in there!!!!!!!!!!

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Old Oct 01, 2006, 02:23 PM
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Re: Desperate !!

I'm sorry you are having trouble and I agree with the others who said do not drop out. Please, please get a job it doesn't sound like not having one is an option for you right now.

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Old Oct 01, 2006, 02:37 PM
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Re: Desperate !!

Hey go back to work... go to a ltc and apply for night shift. I did that and and went to school ful time when it was quite i would study. the nurse was very accomidating as long as every one was taken care of and the work was done. until the take the advice from the above posters. all of it excellent. If there is a will there is a way. DO NOT Drop out of school!!

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Old Oct 01, 2006, 03:19 PM
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Re: Desperate !!

I noticed that you had run into this situation before in January. What solutions did you come up with at that time?

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