I am new to this forum and I think this is a heaven sent for me as I really need people's opinion on what's best to do though at the end of the day I still have to weigh them and apply the most appropriate one.
This is my scenario. Me and my wife are both nurses from the Philippines who migrated to the UK 8 years ago. We are now both British citizens and lately have been feeling the pressure to move to the US (more and more friends and relatives and settling down well in the US leaving us feeling so isolated). The good news is, the decision to relocate is now mutual( it hasn't been for the last 6 years). The bad news is, visascreen for green card requires us to take english proficiency test which did not go down well with my wife as we got 2 kids she can't be bothered to review for these tests (on top of NCLEX). The implication of this will be me as main applicant for the green card making her as my dependent. Would this mean I will move to the US first (leaving them behind) and petition her and the kids?
Can we not relocate together as a family and have jobs waiting for us both?
Can she not apply for a job whilst in the UK (assuming she pass her nclex and got her SSN#) as my dependent?She hates the idea of coming to the states not knowing she will get a job or not.
We are in a bit of a mess as of the moment as I write this

if only I can convince her to take the eng. prof. test

it should be less complicated I guess.
Any advice will do.