As others said, I don't know the situation on your floor.
On my own unit, what I can say is that answering of call lights really needs to be a team effort. There is always someone at the nurses station at any given point...if it is ever empty it is for VERY brief spells. Where we work whoever is in the nurses station at the time picks up the intercom to find out what someone needs and either does it themselves, or tells the nurse/assistant assigned to the pt. Even the secretaries will answer the bell and pass onto a nurse as soon as they see them that a patient needs assistance...or will page the nurse if the patient needs help NOW.
Even if you pop your head in a room to make sure someone is not dying, and let them know you will be with them ASAP as long as they are stable. It only takes a minute to make sure someone is not in crisis and state, " I'm sorry, I'll have someone with you in a few minutes" It really is unacceptable to have a call-light going off for 45 minutes.
I think the best thing to do is for the charge/management to crack down on people who are not answering the bells even though they are able.
I think nurses can do a lot to help cut down on how often the call lights go off, period, by attempting to address any other needs while in the room doing care, and also doing a quick rounding when you have a second. If the pts know that someone is at least peaking their head head in every hour, they are less likely the be riding the call-light for non-urgent needs/questions (yeah, I know, SOME pts are on it every 5 minutes, regardless...but it does help with most).
On the note of feeling frustration over meeting not being helpful, I HEAR YA', and I sympathize. Our staff meetings tend to be terribly unproductive, generally turning into gripe sessions with no-one offering constructive solutions or feedback
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