[Godbless08]

I wouldn't say that I have been bullied in nursing school because I never allow things to get that far. I have health problems and have learned over the years that life is too short to be mean so I'm very nice to everyone until they cross me. I'm also very small, smart and not very healthy so that makes me a good target for bullies, but they learn right away that they are messing with the wrong girl. Although I'm not physically strong, my mouth works just fine and I have no problem standing up for myself.

In my experience, the best way to deal with bullies is to confront them right away when they cross the line and let them know that you will not allow anyone to treat you badly, and if they continue to disrespect you, stay away from them or report them if you have to interact with them. If you demand respect, people will respect you and if you allow people to walk all over you, they will do eactly that.

I have also learned that it is in your own best interest to be respectful and kind to everyone, especially in nursing school because you never know when you might need your colleague to save your behind. I'm starting my last semester (BSN program) in the fall and most of the bullies in our program have been dropped from the progam or been left behind. It is easier to get through nursing school if you have people you can go to for help, and it is harder to ask for or receive help when you treat people unfairly. Thats my advice to all the bullies.