We cant judge others lives, and how they got together, just wish them well!
Different strokes for different folks, I met my hubs when I was 16, found out later that his family thought we would not last. Heck, I was 16, he was 21, even I thought we would not go further than a few months or so. Against the odds, this is still my hubster, my best friend on the planet, we have gone through storms, highs and lows, but I would never have wished to go through them without him.
other people really have no input into your choices, at the time their voices may be important, but years later, when you are still living your life with your best pal on the planet..(even if you NEED to choke him at times!), their words pale into the background. If it feels right, guess thats what I'm saying, then it is right! Hope it stays right for you, as it has for me.
Now in the next ten yrs...when Hugh Jackman asks for my hand...a different story....!!!!!!