Well I would ask myself...do I want to be an LPN or an RN? Also are you in a rush to get this RN? If you are then I would move and find something like an LPN while you are waiting acceptance to a University for RN school or if you are not in a rush then apply now for schools in Cali, move and hope for the best. I always told myself if I did not get into nursing school the 1st time then I would do EMT or Paramedic to get the ball rolling.
If you were to stay then you are making a big commitment to a university and will not be able to move for a long time. Also if you start a univerisity and then move and take another program, they might not accept all credits or have different criteria for the course and you will be stuck.
List your pros and cons and try that.
Hey, I do not blame you for wanting to go back to Cali...my husband and I are moving there about 1 yr after I graduate so 2 more yrs!!