I am so sorry you have so much stress in your life right now!!! I know another poster had mentioned Sallie Mae...I've heard that most people are given a loan from her...sounds like one to check out!!!
Best of luck with the dormer your building (what is that anyway?)!!! Hope you get done with it quickly!!!
And best of luck and congrats on the upcoming birth of your daughter!!!

Very exciting times for sure! I have a daughter who was born on the 15th and will be turning 2!!! Enjoy - she will be the most important thing ever!!!