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Old May 18, 2004, 09:01 PM
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We did sponge baths, but were given the option to wear bathing suits or underwear. We also we allowed to choose our partner. I still didn't like it, but I got thru it. It does give you some insight of how the patient feels to have a stranger bathe you.
Good luck!

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Old May 18, 2004, 09:28 PM
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I'm sorry, but I agree with the OP and the first couple of posts. This crosses the line. I will not let anyone sponge bathe me in nursing school under any circumstances other than fully clothed.

That does not mean I will make a bad nurse, nor would it make me a "good" nurse afterwards should I chose to do it.

JMHO

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Old May 18, 2004, 09:58 PM
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I think that is totally inappropriate and definitely crosses the line. I had a hard enough time in Health Assessment letting my (female) partner palpate my big, fat, flabby abdomen. I suspect this tradition may be from the teachers' school of thought "we had to do it, so they should too." I think in this day and age it's crazy that schools try to get away with this. I could see the potential for a big lawsuit if a student was dismissed for not being willing to be bathed by a classmate! Also, I think being bathed by a total stranger that I'd never have to see again isn't as bad as being bathed by someone I'd have to face for another 2 years. It's great to recognize how awkward patients may feel, but I really think what you're being asked to do is worse than what patients go through. Also, there are countless situations in which we need to use empathy, without necessarily having had the experience firsthand. What's important is being able to imagine how the patient might be feeling, not that you've had the experience yourself. Frankly, is it really that hard to bathe patients? Isn't that one of the many skills that you'll learn from real hands-on (with patients) experience?

I would absolutely fight this. You shouldn't have to sacrifice your privacy because you want to learn how to be a nurse. I think they're way out of line. Good luck to you!

Hillary

Originally Posted by WannaBLPN2005
Ok call me old fashioned but I am kind of concerned. I had my nursing orientation today, and I was informed that as part of one of my practical nursing classes I will have to be sponge bathed by one of my classmates and in turn need to sponge bathe a classmate. Ok fine. No worries. HOWEVER, the next breath was, you will have to strip down to your underwear only and your classmate will drape you and sponge bathe you and vice versa. I understand that as a nurse I will give sponge baths to patients and I have no problem with that. But one of my classmates that I am going to spend hours and hours with for the next 2 years bathing me is a whole other story! True, like the instructor said it lets you know first hand how the patient will feel while you are abthing them, so you will want to treat them with dignity but being an overweight gal I am uncomfortable with this because I will have to look at these classmates for the next 2 years. Did anyone else ever do this as part of their curriculum? I don't mean to freak out but I never heard of this. They can stick me with all the needles they want for practice, but bathe the mannequins...lol

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Old May 18, 2004, 09:58 PM
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I hope stripping down to underwear to be given a sponge bath or be examined does not happen when I start school. I will feel totally violated. I have had enough surgery and hospital staff poking around my almost naked body enough before surgery...I don't want to deal with this in nursing school. Uuugh.

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Old May 18, 2004, 10:19 PM
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>They can stick me with all the needles they want for practice, but bathe >the mannequins...lol


At my school we could not practice injections or finger sticks on each other - safety reasons, etc....
We did have to bathe each other and pretend to put each other on a bedpan. We did not have to strip down to our underwear for the bathing but were encouraged to wear a bathing suit or shorts and a tank top. I wore the shorts and tank top....it was fine. You will not be doing peri care or anything like that.....you can run a damp sponge down someones arm, cant' you???

We also had to do a physical assessment "check off" and run through various assessments techniques on another classmate......PERRLA....Neuro checks......abdominal assessment.....heart sounds and locations (ape to man!!!)
In all scenarios.....the "patient" is properly draped for modesty, and the curtain drawn as well.....
I COMPLETELY freaked out about the thought of bathing another human being..but it really wasn't that bad. I *did* have one elderly gentleman with Alzheimers who was really embarrassed, and did not want me to check his brief (he had retention, and increased dementia..we were worried about UTI...I HAD to check!) Having already been that embarrased "patient" in the Lab really helped me to identify with his embarrasment...
and yes, I had a male Lab partner as well...(the whole time he said he expected me to smack him! LOL! )

Jenny
ADN Grad Dec. 2005

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Old May 18, 2004, 10:20 PM
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We had to bathe each other also, but we were allowed to only wear t-shirt and shorts.

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Old May 18, 2004, 10:20 PM
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OMG that is stupid!

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Old May 18, 2004, 10:21 PM
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I think that this is inappropriate and further more I wonder how much of a liability it would be for the school (if one person decided to act inappropriately). Liability is another reason why a lot of schools do not allow students to perform shots, venipuncture, and ivs on each other. I would assume that you would have to sign a waiver and if not they would have to provide another option for those who did not wish to participate. IMHO there are better ways to understand an issue of patient vulnerability than having to be bathed in your underwear by a classmate.

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Old May 18, 2004, 10:30 PM
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Sorry to say but welcome to nursing school. We had to do it to. We also had to give each other I.M. injections in our rear. Oddly, not one person in our class refused, so I'm not sure how that would have gone over. I am sure if you talked to the instructor she would allow you to wear a bathing suit. We were all just so afraid of our instructors the first semester that no one said anything. Hopefully she is an understanding person and will allow you guys to wear something. I think the first semester of nursing school, the instructors try to intimidate the students into being a bunch of sheep. Crazy.

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Old May 18, 2004, 10:39 PM
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Originally Posted by 275Main
I think that this is inappropriate and further more I wonder how much of a liability it would be for the school (if one person decided to act inappropriately). Liability is another reason why a lot of schools do not allow students to perform shots, venipuncture, and ivs on each other. I would assume that you would have to sign a waiver and if not they would have to provide another option for those who did not wish to participate. IMHO there are better ways to understand an issue of patient vulnerability than having to be bathed in your underwear by a classmate.
LoL if you act inappropriatley then you would get the big ol boot.
Privacy is maintained and no one does peri care so it really isnt a biggy if you have shorts and a tank, or a bathing suit. Of course no one can force you to do anything but fighting it just puts a huge target on your head. Sure you can b*tch moan and kick your feet, but I wouldnt. Its been done a long time and its not like ou have to show your privates. Besides your partner feels awkward about it too. But, it does teach you and you do get a back rub. And you feel what patients feel, only you dont have to show your "stuff" as they do. I just wouldnt pick a partner who had a great physical shape and you didnt. hehe I would pick someone whom I could feel more comfortable with.

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