I do not have a problem with "whatever" comes into our school as long as I have full knowledge of just what is needed and I am on the same page as the phy, parents, etc. I often encounter parents who don't quite fill me in on all of the info about their sick child. That really gets to me because I want to be able to provide good care for that kid, but am undermined by a parent who won't be up front with us. I actually see this a lot..
But I love being able to facilitate a child coming to school just like all of the other kids. I try to develop a good rapor with the parent and student so that we can work well for this child.