Originally Posted by LoriAlabamaRN
keep a close eye on your pens, notebooks, paper clips, even staples. I have had patients who swallow pens, cut themselves with staples, pierced their tongue with a paper clip, etc... you wouldn't believe it.
I know exactly what you mean.
I've had the kids break apart their soap dispenser to cut with or last week this boy broke a PS2 game and used it to cut. What gets me is when they ask "Why do you give us sheets when we can hang ourselves with them?" or "You can't keep me safe" and start scratching on their arms with their fingers.
I had one girl purposely look though the entire bookcase to find staples then show it to me with the smart comment of "You can't keep me safe."
I always tell my patients when they start being unsafe, "You make your own choices. You can either make a good choice or I can make your choices." You have to be able to make a decision and stick with it. Once you draw that line in the sand you have to stand by it. When you show a patient you're wishy washy then they know they can get a way with stuff. Kids need rules and boundries. That's how they feel safe and know we care about them.