Thank you so much for your reply. She is not a candidate for transplant. Never smoked a cigarette in her life. Sucks. Talked to daughter yesterday. They say she would never make it through surgery.
She is now home for Christmas. Daughter says when she was first admitted the docs gave her 3-4 days, but now aren't giving a timeframe. She and the family have decided against hospice for personal reasons, but she is comfortable and being well cared for. She has a very supportive and caring family. I was able to talk to her and she was her usual self, perky and optimistic.
She did have flu and pneumo vaccines this year. Regularly scheduled nebs, prednisone, diuretics, and o2/energy conservation have been long term treatments. Other than the increase in O2 to 6LPM I'm not sure what if anything, new has been added. I see her again on Tuesday.
Thanks again for your response. I know there's not much I can do for her. I admit to selfish feelings of comfort when the family tells me how much it means to them to know I care. I have been her home health nurse for nearly a year. Love home health, but sometimes it sucks. Someday maybe I'll be able to keep myself from getting attached. Don't see how, but maybe. I was told by my DON when she hired me to not let myself get too involved. This coming from a woman who is one of the biggest softies of us all.