I find it just a wee bit fishy that a few extra courses in art, literature, and history make for a better nurse. I guarantee that if nurse/patient ratios were examined, much more useful and accurate information could be brought to light. That, however, would point the finger of blame at the institutions rather than the nurses...can't have that, now can we?
Maybe it's different in other parts of the country but where I live, the nursing components of the ASN and BSN programs are essentially the same, but the BSN programs include an additional year of general education requirements. World literature 201 is not nearly as useful, when caring for patients, as adequate staffing.
Anyway, Wannabe, as an NICU nurse, I can tell you that either route you choose to get your RN will make you an RN, which is what you need to be to work in the NICU. Either route will make you eligible to become certified as a NICU nurse after you have 2 years of experience. Either route will enable you to pursue graduate school, should you decide to go the NNP route later on(several RN-MSN programs out there these days.) Do what works out best for you. Good Luck.