I'm not an RN yet, but I thought I would add something. I do work for an adoption agency and one thing that happens often in our area is that nurses and hospital staff have no idea what to do in the case of a birthmother asking for information on placing the baby for adoption. Many women have no plans for adoption until they go into labor.
The problem in our area is that nurses take it upon themselves to find a friend or family member that "has been wanting to adopt". This is unethical and it shouldn't happen. My agency wrote a booklet to educate the hospitals on protocal and state regulations in the event a mother would like to initiate adoption plans.
I just figured it would be good to mention this as something that nurses can educate themselves on as it would not only include helping the mother find resources, but also dealing with adoptive parents and rooming-in, etc.
-lisa