I came up with a song to remember the steps of manual expression of breasts. it is sung to the tune of the "Hokey-Pokey"
Massage the breast here
massage the breast there
massage the breast here-massage it all around.
Then you do the strokie - strokie (to facilitate milk letdown)
then you shake them all around.... (dangling the breasts)
thats how the milk comes down....
Squirt - Squirt
its even more fun if you demonstrate while singing the song.