Hi, some of you know me but for those who don't I am graduating in May. I applied for both a NICU position and OB position in one hospital but just a NICU position in another hospital because they don't have any more new grad positions left in the OB area because those are going to the current tech's who are graduating in May.
The one hospital where I applied only for the NICU position the HR general nursing recruiter has told me that she forwarded my application the the NICU nurse manager. That has been a month now.

I know this NICU nurse manager name but I don't have her phone number. The last time I talked to the HR general nursing recruiter she has told me that the NICU nurse manager has been going through a lot and she has been going back and forth to two different hospitals trying to help manage the NICU at the other hospital she does not primarily work at and so there has been a lot going on and she has told me to be patient but to keep checking with her the HR general nursing recruiter. This has been 2 weeks ago now. So question is should I e-mail the nurse recruiter back and ask her about the position as well as seeing if I can have contact info for the nurse manager or should I just wait. The only reason why I say e-mail is because the recruiter told me that is the best way to get in contact with her. I am so afraid with the problem of waiting that If I wait too much longer the positions may get filled but at the same time I am afraid of seeming like I am a pest although I have only inquired about the position a total of 2 times over the past month.
What would you do if you were in my shoes.
Thank you.