siri, many thanks for your quick reply. site looks great will look more into it.comforting to know your personal bloods, as my post was actually a personal issue. my dd is 19 and have found she is a-ve, hubby & I both a+ve, just like you. can see a flicker in his head?? (bear in mind my babe has been his double since she was born, (minus goatee etc!) Am seriously pee'd off with him, I don't want to vent personal issues here,sorry guys, but i tune in all the time for advice and things here. after a long long day with my tinies, the last thing I want to hear is a doubt over where this angel of mine came from!!!!! sorry again, other things have happened today, thanks for being interested!