Thanks for the words of wisdom. I feel like a fish out of water with this and so do most of my colleagues. We, the nurses, found out about her coming in less than two days before her scheduled induction and the docs feelt like it was OK to have him in our hospital. Not a popular opinion with some nurses, and now the little guy, and her parents, I hate to say, may not get exactly the best they all deserve.
I would love to have him shipped, but I don't know if that will happen. Our tertiary care centers are many miles away (75-100).
I am sick of making excuses to this family and for our docs, this kid never should have been born with us, I'm not sure the mom got the best advise from her 'addictions specialist', and I am dying to just tell them to get that kid to the tertiary care center themselves. But I will continue to try to be as tactful as I can and fight behind the scenes to get him what he deserves.
This sucks!!