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Old May 07, 2008, 06:03 AM
babiesRmylife (Female)
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Re: Adoption

I couldn't agree more. The instability that I think babies in foster care & those as mentioned by Hopefull2009 by "yanking" children in & out of their homes when they are perhaps "unfit" & unstable is what makes children how they are.

I know many people that are adopted & they tell me all the time hwat it was like growing up for them. It's hard when you go from home to home not knowing where your going to end up next.

Thats why I don't understand our SRS system. I see children who's parents are COMPLETELY "unfit" with the wrong type of responsibilities, have never came to visit or called for that matter, but yet they want to "integrate them back into the family." I don't understand. I guess I just have to trust the system?!?

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Old May 07, 2008, 01:56 PM
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Our family has really got in touch with foster care recently.

My father's, sister's, daughter (everyone get that?)...is drug addicted and lost custody of her 10-year-old to foster care recently.

The judge stated that if my 1st cousin cannot secure a job, a car, and a place to live for a minimum of 6 months, he is not considering returning her daughter back to her.

Her parents, are in their 80's and are not able to take care of her.

No one else in the family will take this child in.

We are so financially strapped to the limit, we can't take her in, but I have promised my aunt if by next year, she is still in foster care, when I start working, I'll take the child in. I can't stand the thought of that.

Keep in mind...I have NEVER seen this child...but the fact she is family, is making me sick.

This poor girl was in a foster home for 5 months, and fell in love with her foster mother then for reasons no one knows, she was pulled out...and this really devasted the little girl...we have no idea to this day, why such a decision was made.

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Old May 07, 2008, 03:45 PM
babiesRmylife (Female)
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See I don't understand why things like that happen. Sometimes they get put in foster homes where they are absoultely adored & they just yank them out. I don't get it. And our state's SRS/foster system SUCKS! Really sucks!

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