Thanks for the advice. I ended up getting some dansko professionals.

the only problem is they are hurting my feet. Ive warn them on 2 different 12 hour shifts. At different times of course. I know shoes like this may need to brake in buttt Im starting to worry.
My arches toward my heel feel bruised. The second shift the leather loosened so the top of my foot feels a lot better. But the arch thing is disheartening. Im not sure why, maybe the other shoes messed up my feet a little and they have to recover, maybe my arches arent as high as I always thought. Has anyone else had problems breaking in their danskos?