[jadednurse]

I am sorry for you loss. I'm sure that makes things more stressful. Good to hear you had some resolve with your schedule. Keep up the good fight!

[passing thru]

And it isn't just the schedule...it is one nurse covering two units.
Also you have to be willing to '''give up''' some of the control/ power,responsibility.
I've seen nurses complain out the kazoo about how hard they were worked , the frustration, etc. Along comes a manager n with ideas, and offers to relieve them of some of their responsibilities, ..............and BAM!
The complaining nurse gets territorial and doesn't want to give up a single responsibility/duty or job.
Of course I know this doesn't apply to you DV8 but you will see it, especially around the specialty units.

When those charge and management positions were offered to me in the units, I told the managers -- real quick-- ""You couldn't pay me enough to take that job !"
I love to walk out the door without a care after my shift.
Take care of yourself DV8, and make sure they understand there should be two nurses in charge of those 16 patients. You do have a secretary on your shift don't you?

[renerian]

I am sorry for your loss as well. I agree with a previous post don't let them know you need your job........

Hugs,

renerian

[MedicineMan]

I was an idealist when I entered the nursing field, and it took 5 years in a level I trauma center to beat that out of me. I hid out in a CCU for a year and a half. Then accidently took a job in an ICU with a new open heart program.

I was lost until then, I felt the only reason in nursing I loved(trauma) had left the profession, and I did not know why I should ever care/come to work anymore. I bumbled into the open heart arena with a laxidasical attitude, then it hit me....... some times patients do get better, and we do make a positive influence with our myriad of procedures. Mind you, I was not a nievete to the real world, but one who had felt we were just practicing on human lives, and they(pts), and us(medical staff) did not care about the real issues, or if any real good came from what we did. Working in an inner city ER will make you cynical ay best, brokenhearted at worst, and I was right in the middle.

A fresh look at a new realm of cardiothoracic interventions turned my world around, and refocused my nursing career. Bottom line.....look towards an entirely new venue of nursing, inspire yourself to start to care more about your career. Try OB, yea I said OB. Catch a couple hundred beautiful little babies, and share some happiness for a while.

Try a venue of nursing that has a happy ending. Like you said you only have 9 years to go, so let go. Give up the hassle of management, and go into some other field. Yea it's scary, but the end result will be invigoration of your pysche, and career. Come out of the stress of SICU, and try something more slow paced. Peds, dialysis, IV therapy, school nursing. All of these venues are places my collegues have moved to, and most had good experiences. At least a fresh look at themselves.

I wish you luck..........Ed