I've dealt with family members before who were employees of the hospital where I work, but it has never been an issue until today. A patient's daughter, a RN at my hospital (with a high reputation I might add) just waltzed up into the PACU unannounced. Patient was a total hip with spinal and was very drowsy from fentanyl, versed, diprivan ect. that she had received during her case. Sats were low initially so a face shield was applied at 40%. Also BP was low from spinal, so Neo was being started too. Obviously not ready to be visited by family and I sure as heck hadn't called for them yet.

Daughter was already angry over other issues prior to surgery not related to PACU. She begins baggering me over orders, labs, ect right in the middle of PACU and proceeds to go to our nurses station and start making phone calls. I pretty much told her she "Knows the Rules" and I can't tell her the information she wants. Hello? HIPPA? Meanwhile, my charge nurse was totally letting it slide because the nurse has "worked here forever" and "she's just worried about her mom". I on the other hand am thinking it is very inappropriate. I understand she is worried and a I know it's hard when you're a nurse on the other side of care. But this was a little extreme. I won't go into detail, but other issues arose, and it didn't go well. I was just wondering if this has ever happened to anyone else and how they handled it? Am I the one who was out of line? I believe in professional courtesey, but I'm not putting my butt on the line with all the privacy issues involved with HIPPA. I've just been bothered about it all afternoon. What do you all think? Thanks.