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You can discuss the situation vaguely, can't you ? Seems to me that you've worked REALLY REALLY hard to get where you are at. All those hours you've spent on school could've been spent with your kids and family, YOU ALL DESERVE to see you graduate, right ? What about the money you've spent on school ? Are you willing to throw all that away ? Go to or call the school. I'm sure somebody there will understand your situation.
Best of Wishes!