Funny because I cared for this same patient two weekends in a row as a new grad nurse. Last week confused, in restraints. This week back with us mentally, pleasant. I think I took excellent care of him. Well his brother comes in first thing in the AM each day.
I happen to be dressed in my whites because 1) they were clean 2) I just passed boards and wanted to wear my pin
So I go in and put TEDS on pt and explain that I could not find an order where they were dc'd and so the pt needed them until the doc dc's them. Brother comments "wow you are really attentive to figure that out. How long have you been a nurse?" I explain that I am a recent graduate of nursing school but I have interned for a year at this facility. Sounds like a complement right?
Then he goes on about how nice I look in my white uniform and how he did "always like a nurse in white. That is most men's sexual fantasy" GAG (where are smilies now? can't find them anymore)
I'm not even some young cutie... I'm 31 and a size 16 and just worked like 10 hrs at that point lol. I stated something like "well it's a shame nurses are still stereotyped like that in this country. We ARE college educated professionals with degrees that can go all the way to doctorates" he stumbled a bit about it but said the same thing AGAIN grrrrrr.
I told my preceptor about it last night (she was out sick that night) and she said next time to tell them that is TOTALLY inappropriate! Anyway, so this morning he comes in again and I'm sitting in the hall charting.
Pt complained to brother I think that I threw away his gum. I'm pretty sure he was joking because we had teased each other about it all night long (I had made him spit it out because he was falling asleep with it in his mouth) Brother said "well I'm sure they do what they feel is in your best interest" sounds nice right? Then he follows it with "besides if they screw up the doctors are up their a$$" ugh I was SO ticked but I just finished my charting (I had already reported off anyway)
The nurse yday told me she was in there examing pt's scrotum as it had a yeast rash and there were several inappropriate comments made about nurses and they got into some conversation about that heart attack grill and the nurse (very strong opinionated nurse..good for her) explained how they were inappropriately representing nurses.
Anyway, that was my first real taste of that garbage in the real world.
Had another pt who wanted to fuss at everyone who walked in the door for bothering him. He turned out to be very nice to me as I told him everything I was doing for the shift and grouped his care together and he told me I was very nice to him. But he still got ticked I didn't get his coffee right when he wanted it. Ohh I just had a pt next door with a stomach full of fecal looking matter (we think impaction?) and had to contact the GI doc.
Welcome to nursing I guess .. sigh...