Originally Posted by heartrn35
californianurse,
I'm not sure I will be able to make changes to my personality to WOW people during the interveiw, but I'm going to make my best attempt to makesure that I'm not suffering from mediocrity either.
Thanks again
heartrn35
I feel for you. My first interview experiences did not go well and it was because I didn't trust myself to let myself be me. Does that make sense? I thought I had to wow them or something. But after I was turned down by the first school and wait listed by the second, I did some heavy soul searching, talking out loud whenever I was alone about my motives etc, and trying to talk until I could stand the sound of my own voice (I never could stand to hear myself talk for some reason).
I worked on it until my next round of interviews and I made it in! I am not saying this is your problem but if you are baffled, which it sounds like you are, then maybe learning to live in your own skin and enjoy being yourself in any situation would help you in an interview. Also people like to be liked. Find something to like about them. This takes your mind off of you and onto what you can do for them. This will show on your face.
I was in on an interview commitee once and I was surprised by my own reactions to people in interviews. I really appreciated an open smile, a little attempt at humor, and a person who, while confident, had the air of wanting to learn. People who, when asked about a situation that they didn't know the answer to, said they didn't know but would look it up or ask for help in a given scenario, came across as honest and not too puffed up. Taking a little time to form an answer is ok too. Being able to admit a mistake and what you learned from it is huge!
Turn offs by the interviewees include looking down while talking, talking too soft, talking nonstop, leaning back in the chair, and low-cut blouses/non-professional dress among other things.
Another bit of advice I learned on this forum is that you don't have to do this. You have a life and are a good person, competent, etc without this experience of anesthesia school. (I know that secretly, you do have to do this but tell yourself it's ok to not make it in to this school this year). It helps to not put the pressure on yourself.
Just a few things I learned from others and from my own experience.