
This HIPAA stuff is just so much a PIA. I've been in nursing for 30 years and wouldn't hesitate to make a phone call to whoever the patient had indicated during his admission as a contact person for him.

Now, everyone is worried about HIPAA violations. What are they going to do, throw you in jail for making a phone call, especially when you've checked the chart or asked the patient to find out who to call? Honestly, if it were your dad lying in that bed, would you want to hear a bunch of crap about HIPAA as the reason you didn't get called when daddy was circling the drain? Hospitals have carried this HIPAA confidentiality on the nursing units way out of proportion. HIPAA was initially designed to deal with the paperwork, mandatory reporting to Medicare, and third party insurance payers. Somehow, some people got panicy and worried about calling relatives. I'm not saying that it can't happen that there's someone the patient doesn't want knowing about them, but in my experience the patient is usually yelling about that as they are being admitted. I worked on a unit where we occassionally had people who wanted their identity hidden and we had procedures in place to do just that.
OK, let me get off my platform now. Go to the nurse educators and ask them about hospital HIPAA policy. Or, check the nursing policy manual on this. Read it over and follow it to the letter. Follow what is said in black and white. You can't go wrong that way. That aside, I would say, use common sense. Develop some kind of a relationship with your patients and find out who they live with, who cares for them, who will want to know about them. That way, if something does go wrong with the patient, like me, you won't feel the least bit hesitant about who to call.

It so bothers me that a lot of newer nurses are so willing to remain distant from their patients and the patient's family because they were admonished against doing this in nursing school rather than establish some kind of relationships with their patients and families. Families are part of our patient's lives and it is wrong to ignore them. Geez!