We are not allowed to digitally remove without the residents permission, you also have to go through a check list of things beforehand. Mostly the residents who become impacted with us are the independent ones who go to the toilet unaided and can be difficult to keep track of.
Have you tried abdominal massage, done properly by a trained therapist it works really well.
We had a Reflexologist some time ago who actually had to stop doing a certain foot massage because ...well let's just say it worked too well!