Please don't misunderstand or think I'm being standoffish, but I've been a nurse a long time. I started working as a nursing assistant in LTC when I was a nursing student and I've worked in LTC as a charge nurse and supervisor as well as worked for many years as a hospital staff nurse, nursing supervisor and unit manager. I've seen a lot of crap. Part of being a charge nurse in LTC (and I've worked plenty of skilled units in LTC) is riding herd on the CNAs who act more like a bunch of adolescents than they do responsible adults. It wears you out, I know. It's all behavioral. Nursing school didn't prepare us for this, but it's part of the job, unfortunately. Part of it has to do with the fact that not everyone who supervises the CNAs is on the same wavelength and exercises the same discipline and supervision over them. So, like children, the CNAs get very good at manipulation of the nursing staff. They learn just how far they can push each nurse. And then they go and gossip among themselves about it.
I took seminars in how to handle difficult people and I have a couple of books that helped a lot with dealing with the CNAs who were outright insubordinate or smart alecs:
- Managing Difficult People: A Survival Guide for Handling Any Employee by Marilyn Pincus
- Working With Difficult People by Muriel Solomon
Learning some assertiveness helps as well. Sometimes you just have to put your foot down. You may not be able to solve the facility problems with the CNAs, but by god, you can at least make your work shift livable. That's what I did. Every CNA I worked with learned real quickly what I would and wouldn't tolerate from them. They either did what I wanted or I found a way to make their life so miserable they either begged for an assignment on another unit or they quit. Either way was fine with me. And, I was glad to help them. I learned the policies and procedures and knew the rules for discipline like the back of my hand and applied them to the letter. Any CNA who was a problem I took the time to make sure their wrong doing got written up and documented for the DON and that the CNA knew it. They hated me--good. It kept them off my unit. I seldom was at the nurses station. I was in the hallways where I was always able to see what the CNAs were doing and saying. Like I said, if the other charge nurses and the DON weren't going to nip these problems in the bud, I was doing it on a one by one basis. You see, I had been a supervisor and manager in the acute hospitals so I knew how this disciplinary/documentation process worked even though some of these people that get hired to be DONs in the nursing homes have no clue about.
Now, I'm not saying I was mean in personality. Quite the opposite. I always tried to remain calm and keep my cool. I try very hard to be very fair minded and open to suggestions. I'm really very easy to get along with--until people start taking advantage or screwing off. Then, I'll hunt them down, watch them with the eye of an eagle and find every mistake they make. I'll be their worst enemy. It doesn't take long either. You get a rotten CNA and inside of a couple of weeks they are gone because they can't help but screw up all the time. It's not in their nature to do things correctly. You just have to be vigilant and take the time to document it all. Don't assume that other nurses are reporting and documenting their wrongdoing.
So, you can give me all kinds of crap about how you value your CNAs. I valued mine too. But not the ones that gave me headaches. I just did what I had to do to get them out of my hair.
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